“At every moment of every day, an infinite amount of choices is offered to us. These choices have consequences; every decision made in the past determines our future.” Nathan explained. “And what makes us opt for one choice as opposed to another?” Nigel asked. “When we consciously reflect before making a choice, we always try to weigh the consequences it will have. Each of us acts this way in accordance to our understanding of things, an understanding that develops from our past experiences.” Nathan stated. “In Central Park you talked about the importance of discovering the real source of our thoughts and feelings.” Nigel reflected. “You remembered my words well. Indeed we have to be aware that we always decide ourselves which feelings we designate to every thought.” Nathan said. Nigel gave himself a few moments to reflect before asking the following question: “Isn’t each thought already linked to a particular feeling?” “That’s often the impression we get, but in reality, we all have the ability to choose which feelings we associate with a thought. The more aware you are of this, the more you will understand things. Your choices will then become more appropriate and your actions will render you happier in the long run.” Nathan answered.
“I see that many of you are sincere in your desire to fight injustice. In this respect, I’d like to tell you something important.” Everyone was all ears. “My friends, remember that when it comes to improving life on earth, there is something much more powerful and much more efficient than the will.” Everybody was intensely curious now to know what important statement Nathan was going to pronounce! “It has to do with understanding the world around us! Every action we undertake is dependent on that. If this understanding is rooted in the source of our thoughts and feelings, it will guide us well.” Again Nathan paused a moment to let the meaning of his words be understood. Finally, a man in a suit asked him: “How do we know what’s at the source of our thoughts and feelings?” “By reflecting on what our real motivation is,” Nathan answered, “For that, we need to ask ourselves this question: what is the ultimate goal that I’m trying to attain?” Nathan paused for a moment and then continued with fervor: “I know that you’re questioning and wondering about the best strategy to employ in organizing events, but is every one of you deeply convinced of the real reason for these events?” He paused again. The public was completely still, mesmerized by every word. “Ask yourselves ‘what do I think is an ideal world’, and ‘how can I contribute to it’. These are the questions that if you spend enough time on them, will give you a deep understanding of things.” Nathan stood up, and ended his speech with strong and poignant sentences, interspersed with long pauses, which had the effect similar to that of collective hypnosis on the listeners: “Those who are truly looking for the good will recognize each other! They will feel a powerful connection between each other and will then be able to use their full potential! Their actions will serve as examples for others, and little by little, this will lead to a transformation of the world, until it finally becomes a welcoming and inspiring place for all!”
Truly, to change anything on the external, requires a change on the internal. Perhaps not a change, but an awareness of who we are and what matters above all, Love.
Being aware, brings peace and harmony, and that influences the outside. Our thoughts, our actions, our words become ones of Love and Peace, and that has the effect of inspiring others.
THAT’s how change is made… ~Grace
“What do they talk about with you?” Nathan asked. “All kinds of problems, but usually they are all centered on the same subject. Many people imagined their romantic relationships differently. They often believed they had found real love with their partners, but with time, they became totally disillusioned.” Catalina answered. “When do we know if it’s real love?” Nathan asked curiously. “It’s simple; love is not real if it changes when the circumstances change!” She stated. “In a relationship, doesn’t love and suffering sometimes go hand in hand?” Nathan asked. “Suffering comes about when a relationship is based on need, when subconsciously, one partner wants to possess or dominate the other. What sustained that relationship in the beginning was the need for love that brought about that relationship in the first place, and then it became a habit, and often, it ends in solitude.” She explained. “Why do some relationships seem so promising in the beginning?” “In the beginning, feelings of love are subconsciously projected on the person we meet.” Catalina stated. “In that case, does it mean that those feelings of love were not sincere?” Nathan asked. “Love is always present within each of us. We don’t need someone else to experience it.” “Are you saying that we don’t need anyone else to feel love?” Nathan asked.
“No, we don’t need to search for it, and definitely, we should not want to dominate another. Many people erroneously imagine that they can find the love they want in someone else, but no one can give us what we already have.” Catalina stated.“What does a loving relationship mean to you, Catalina?” Catalina took her time to properly formulate her answer. Finally, she said: “Loving is taking the time to truly be interested in one another, to be with one another, but especially to find peace with one another.” “Then I believe I have a loving relationship with Sophie.” Nathan said. Catalina smiled. “We have a loving relationship with everyone, Nathan. What renders your relationship with Sophie particular is the intimacy you share together.” She stated. “What is the most important thing about a relationship?” Nathan asked. “To always dare to recognize the truth of the moment.” Catalina replied. “The truth of the moment?” Nathan asked curiously. “It’s what we learn by giving the other the possibility of expressing himself or herself, whether it’s disapproval, admiration, anger or joy.”
How much richer relationships are when the two parties feel complete within themselves, when they realize that Love has always been within, and then they embark on a relationship as a “sharing” of such Love rather then searching for it in the other… If you have the impression that Love is on the outside and you need to find it in another person to feel “complete”, then you’ll always be disillusioned.